Listen to me, son.Only a foolish man places a woman above his future. A woman is not your purpose. A woman is not your mission. A woman is not the reason you exist.You were not created for a woman. You were created for a purpose. Find it. Submit to it. Build it. Protect it.Any woman who enters your life must help you fulfill that purpose, not pull you away from it. The man who abandons his vision to chase a woman will always lose both.That man becomes weak. Emotionally unstable. Angry. Bitter. Confused. Easily manipulated. Quietly resentful.Do not be that man. A man’s beauty is not in romance. It is in direction. It is in discipline. It is in commitment to his mission.The right woman does not fall in love with your comfort. She falls in love with your future. When a woman sees where you are going and believes in it; she will gladly walk with you through the hard, uncertain present.She will not drain your resources. She will help you manage them wisely. She will support the seed, not consume it.Your present resources are not for reckless spending. They are tools for building tomorrow. A great woman understands this. She guards the present so the future can be born.That is what makes her a queen. That is what qualifies her for your commitment. Anything less is a distraction. Anything less will cost you years. Anything less will leave you in regret, bitterness, and confusion; sitting in therapy asking how you lost yourself.If she is not pouring into your growth, She has no place in your life. Choose purpose over pleasure. Direction over desire. Legacy over loneliness. Don't be a fool.Learn or eat your tomatoes 🍅 raw.Happy Sabbath 🌹🌹🌹